Have you noticed that with children everything happens in phases?
At certain times, they are as wise as images, and suddenly the tide turns, and we no longer recognize them.
They shout, hit, provoke us, refuse everything, hate everything, do one more stupid thing...
Let's be clear, they make themselves hateful!
🚨And yet, it is in these moments that they test our limits (which we should not hesitate to remind), but also and above all our love.
🤷🏼♀️But why does he need to test my love??? You tell me! I give him everything, he obviously knows that I love him!
Yes, but all children go through this need at certain times. It's like the spoon test that falls and makes a noise. It's funny, and let's see if anyone picks it up for me.
That doesn't mean you're not giving him enough love! Quite the contrary. A child who is truly lacking will not take a test, he already knows.
😈It's hard to give love to this little monster right now, huh?
🪧You have to see your behavior as a kind of MANIF!
There you are, your child is manifesting, he is screaming
“I’ll go all the way, let’s see how much you love me!”
🌟Good news, there is a solution that always works, and I named it “MAGIC MOMENT!”
Comment on “Magical Moment” if you want my next post to explain the technique in detail!
In this post, I will explain to you how to set your limits by showing your child that this behavior is not acceptable, while assuring him that you have heard him, and that yes, you love him more than anything, whatever. whether he says or does!
You'll see, it's as easy as pie!